Sex sells, but who cares?

I got asked today why I don’t include sex in any of my stories, and this got me thinking.

It would be all too easy to say I’ve never thought of adding it, which, technically, would be a lie, just as it would be all too easy to say maybe you missed it and have them pour back over everything I’ve ever written in search of that one particular scene. I could say that, but I won’t.

The simple fact of the matter is I have never really written either a convincing sex scene of felt the need for one. It’s not that I can’t think of something to put in, it’s just that I quite simply don’t feel the need. Not simply for the purposes to enticing more readers at any rate. That’s not the kind of writer I am.

I believe there are times and a places for everything. If I was to write a teenage camp story where dim witted teens investigated every sound with a flashlight, I might be inclined to bring myself to include something close to a sex scene, but as with almost everything I write it would invariably always lead to someone being taken out in the grizzliest way I can imagine.

That’s not to say I haven’t tried. Because I have. The passages were ultimately deleted and forgotten. Try as I might, I just couldn’t get it to work as comfortably as I thought.

This kind of impasse seems to extend into much of what I’ve written so far. And although I’m not discounting the idea of writing one totally, I’m sure when I do it will only be a cursory couple of passages.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that I don’t write sex for the sake of readership.

Again, thanks for reading.




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